Therapy for Life Transitions    New York

Therapy for Life
Transitions in New York

Support for when life shifts beneath your feet. Online across NY or in-person in Clinton, NY.

15+
Years Experience
Working with teens and adults navigating major shifts in their lives.
Licensed clinical social worker with over 15 years supporting people through change and life transitions.
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Ways to Meet
In-person in Clinton, NY — or online, anywhere in New York State.
Sessions available in Clinton, NY and virtually across New York — whatever fits your routine.
Flexible Scheduling
Daytime availability designed to fit into your life without adding more stress.
Scheduling that works with real life — not a months-long waitlist or a single rigid time slot.
Find Footing
Life in Transition
Support for change, whether it was chosen or not.
Change can shake your sense of identity, routine, and direction — even when it's the right kind of change.

About the work

Change Is Hard,
Even If It Might
Be the Right Kind

At Valerie Lighthall LCSW Counseling Services, therapy for life transitions is a space to process change without having to figure it all out on your own. With over 15 years of experience, Valerie works with teens and adults who are navigating major shifts in their lives and need support finding their footing again, even if they cannot quite name what feels off yet.

Sessions are available virtually across New York State and in person in Clinton, NY, with daytime availability that works around your schedule, not the other way around.
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15+
Years of Experience

Recognizing the signs

When Everything
Is Changing
at Once

Life transitions can feel exciting and terrifying at the same time. Whether the change was chosen or not, it can shake your sense of identity, routine, and direction in ways that are hard to explain to the people around you. You may be navigating:

  • Starting or finishing college and not knowing what comes next
  • A move, a breakup, a divorce, or a shift in a major relationship
  • A new job, career change, or the loss of one
  • Becoming a parent or adjusting to a new stage of parenthood

You do not need to be in crisis to deserve support. Therapy can help you process what is shifting, reconnect with what matters to you, and move forward with more clarity and confidence.

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You don't have to have it figured out to start moving forward.

Valerie Lighthall, LCSW

The approach

A Steady,
Collaborative Approach
to Change

Change doesn't come with a manual, and neither does this work. It is a collaborative process where you are actively involved, and your voice matters.

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Honest, direct conversations that do not sugarcoat things
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What this means

Sessions won't dance around what needs to be said. Expect honest, direct feedback, even when it's hard to hear, because that's often where real movement starts.

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A supportive space that still holds you accountable
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What this means

This isn't just a space to talk in circles about the change. Support and accountability work together here, so you can actually move toward what's next.

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A therapist who shows up as a real person, not just a title
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What this means

You won't get a rehearsed script. Valerie brings genuine presence and reacts honestly in sessions — the same way she'd want support to feel if she were in your seat.

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You do not need all the answers.
You just need a place to start.

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Private Pay Practice

Logistics

Flexible Support,
Without the Extra Hassle

Starting therapy should not feel like another overwhelming decision. From online scheduling to a simple client portal, everything is designed to be straightforward so you can focus on what you are going through. If you have been thinking about getting support during this season of change, this is a good place to start.

Virtual & In Person Teens & Adults in NY Private Pay
  • Available virtually across all of New York State
  • Daytime appointments available
  • Simple, secure video platform — no downloads required
  • Consistent weekly scheduling so it becomes part of your routine
  • In-person sessions held in Clinton, NY
  • Daytime availability — adding to your schedule, not disrupting it
  • A warm, private office space designed for comfort
  • Easy to add to your schedule without adding stress to your day
  • Glens Falls, NY — $175/session
  • Virtual, NY — $165/session
  • Sliding scale available — reach out to discuss
  • Payment due at time of session — credit card, HSA/FSA accepted

Choosing not to work with insurance companies is a deliberate decision — one that protects you as much as it protects the quality of our work together.

  • You don't have to receive a mental health diagnosis to begin therapy.
  • Session notes stay between us — they won't be shared with your insurance company.
  • No outside party gets to decide how often we meet, how long we work together, or whether your reasons for coming are valid enough.
  • A smaller caseload means more attention, more flexibility, and more personalized care — not a number in a system.
  • Insurance reimbursement rates for private practice therapists are low and don't reflect experience or training — private pay keeps this work sustainable and focused on you.
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The first step

Getting Started Is Simple

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Reach Out

Fill out the contact form or send a message — no pressure, just a starting point.

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You'll hear back within a couple of business days to set up a free 15-minute consultation call.
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Quick Consultation

A short call to talk about what's going on and see if it feels like a good fit.

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This is a low-pressure conversation — there's no obligation to continue if it's not the right fit for either of you.
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Begin Sessions

Schedule your first appointment — virtual or in-person in Clinton, NY.

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From here, sessions are scheduled weekly or biweekly, at a consistent day and time that works with your routine.

Common questions

Getting Started
Is Simple

Send a message describing what brings you in. Valerie will follow up to schedule a free consultation call.

This is a private pay practice. A receipt can be provided for you to submit to your insurance for possible out-of-network reimbursement, depending on your plan.

Both. Virtual sessions are available anywhere in New York State, and in-person sessions are held in Clinton, NY.

Teens and adults navigating major life transitions — whether chosen or not, and whether or not they can quite name what feels off yet.